The Purrfect Femme Fatale

Yes, my lovelies, you were right–I’m going to be Catwoman for Halloween.  Purrrfect, right?   I must confess, I was super tempted to be a lesbian vampire, but with all the Twilight fans running around, I don’t think the world needs another vampire this year.  So, consider yourself warned:  once I slip into my catsuit and high-heeled black leather boots, [...]

Top 10 Reasons Not To Wear A Culturally Appropriating Halloween Costume

Are you working on your Halloween costume, darlings?  I know you’re busy shopping for wigs and whatnot, but take a few minutes to read this terrific piece by Portland’s Freddie Fagula, co-director of  the drag-u-mentary Third Antenna:  The Radical Nature of Drag (which I love).  I’ve reposted from Angry Black-White Girl’s blog–thanks for posting, AB-WG!
While we’re talking about costumes [...]

Why Do Femme?

This is my response to Making Space’s recent post on femme and femininity.  You can read her whole post here.
It just never ever ever in a million gazillion years would EVER occur to me that ANY woman EVER EVER EVER EVER (have I emphasized this enough?) would voluntarily paint her nails or wear makeup every day. So I’m [...]

Halloween Pin-up Girls

Here are a few of my favorites.  Enjoy!

 

Sublimefemme Tells All, No. 26

Don’t hate me because I’m fiendishly clever.

How Do You Describe Your Style?

I was recently asked this question.  Here’s my answer; what’s yours?
I am a queer femme professor who likes to mix trendy and classic looks and aspires to be polished and stylish 24-7.  Unfortunately, I have to admit that right now I’m wearing jeans and an oversized university T-shirt.  My nails, however, look fabulous.

Autumnal Femme

 

“I am she: I am he”

The charming G has a great new post Hurry, look–I posted poetry, which  immediately made me think of one of my favorite poems by Adrienne Rich,”Diving into the Wreck,” which is also about change. 
Maybe one reason I like Rich’s poem is because I have had no shortage of wreckage to explore in my life–dysfunctional family dynamics, loss, feelings of [...]

Couldn’t Resist

Shhh…Van is very jealous so please don’t tell her I was out on the town with a cute butch last night!

Butch-Femme.com Bash

Butch-Femme.com 2009 Las Vegas Bash Oct 8-11